Athena Loves Fashion

Swine Flu

2009-05-01T18:34:00.001-07:00

Where have you been all my life? My kids are finally becoming obsessive compulsive with hand sanitizer and it only took a news report or two to get them going with it. I've been told that they douse themselves at school. Swine Flu. Go figure.

Athena Valentine

CPK, Fudge & Reminising

2009-04-05T22:03:00.000-07:00

This weekend was short ( boo) but sweet. I babysat on Friday and Saturday for my favorite little girl who turned three this past weekend. I was touched that the family asked me to help out. I had a nice time and the girl is one of my favorite people in the whole world. I can't wait till this weekend when I can play with Foofi ( her new guinea pig) and watch some Sleeping Beauty.

Nick and I had a date this afternoon which I enjoyed because he was quite clever. I enjoy his wittiness but some of his jokes go over my head. I think we even each other quite nicely though, and bearing that in mind, our three year anniversary is coming up next month! :O It hardly seems like its been that long to be honest. We have had our ups and downs but always seem to make it thru. And make fun of each other while doing it, which keeps a smile on our face. We had some tasty California Pizza Kitchen for a early dinner and shared some fudge which tasted quite nicely when munched on in the car and even better when shared in bed while watching Speed in bed. Keanu Reeves is a freak who never ages.

Last, I decided to clean my living room, kitchen and do some laundry after Nick passed out. I came across a ton of criminal justice work I've done over the years and I've realized that even though it gets tough, my degree will be so worth it when I have it in my hand. And lastly, I know I'm in the right field. I can tell I really shine when I see all the notes teaches write over my work. Sometimes it may not feel like it, but I'm in the field of study where I need to be. I also looked over past to-do list and calendars which cracked me up. I had a pretty busy crazy life when I was younger and although I'm settled, I'm still glad that my life is still busy and crazy. I hope its like that for alot longer, I still have so many memories to make!

A New Direction

2009-04-05T10:49:00.000-07:00

I've always really enjoyed writing. I remember being 11 years old and writing an entire mini novel. ( only for it to get lost :( ) But I really think I've been blogging in way that isin't 100% me. I have plenty of things to say and talk about but I only seem to blog about things that other people might find cool and important. When in reality, this is my blog. I can write whatever I freakin feel about and quite frankly, don't take advantage of it. I'm quite witty but really don't shine on my own space. So, my blogging is going to become more frequent and more honest, which is what I want to do with my life. Be more honest. Be more simple. Be more aware.

Here's Hoping
Athena

Michiganders In Las Vegas

2009-03-07T14:07:00.000-08:00

I took a break from studying this week to hang out with Nick's friend Travis who flew in from Michigan with his lady friend. Their awesome people so after a wonderful italian dinner and some drinks, we danced at the Piano Bar and Coyote Ugly. I also have new hair!

An ode To Valentines Day

2009-02-12T10:24:00.000-08:00

I absoultly heart Valentine's Day. There is something about hearts and chocolates and the sentimental cheesiness of it all that keeps me smitten. Does it hurt that my middle name is Valentine and my tiny sister were born on the magical day as well??? But this year, I am taking all the pressure of having a magaical love fest with Sir Nickolas and skipping town. I am going home for the weekend to see my family, play dollar blackjack with Chuckie and celebrate my sisters one year on this polar ice cap melting home we call Earth. Not to say I'm not doing magical things for my honey. I am making him a Valentine to mimick this and presenting him with a box of chocolate peanut butter bears. Then when I get home on Sunday, we are going to watch Friday the 13th and eat at our favorite resturant California Pizza Kitchen. But don't think I didn't think of an ode to my wonderful charming fiance.

Dear Nick,

I can't believe it's been already three years under out belt come this May. It seems like just yesterday we would talk on the phone until 4am, make cinamon rolls without burning them and sightsee all over Las vegas while getting to know the real us. I was truly happy when you asked me to marry you on our one year anniversary and even though our future plans are on the back burner while I go to school, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for taking care of me in ways I will forever be thankful for. Thank you for letting me crawl in your lap when I've had a bad day or good one, just to let me babble in your ear. Thank you for having your own life outside of our relationship so that I may have one as well. Thank you for helping me take care of our furry children, I couldn't do it without you. Thank you for putting the Wii in the bedroom so that I can play Guitar Hero anytime the mood strikes. Thank you for letting me eat in bed even though I am the queen of crumbs. And thank you for just loving me the way I am when I wake up in the morning, with my crazy bed hair and old pajama pants I just can't seem to part with. I love you too Nickel, just the way you are.

Athena

Wise Words Of The Moment

2009-02-10T10:30:00.000-08:00

Figure out what you want to be, figure out what you want, then figure out sensible ways to get there.

He's Just Not That Into You

2009-02-07T22:12:00.001-08:00

I was able to have a girls night with Sandy and her family and we went to see "He's Just Not That Into You" I remember the book from when I was younger when my friend Val picked up a copy and when I saw the famous Sex And The City episode I almost died. The movie pretty much just gave examples of famous boy behavior and the way us girls take it. I wish I read this book back in my dating days. It might have saved me some heartbreak. But then, I wouldn't have been able to meet my prince and look how we turned out. I laughed hysterically when Justin Long was on the phone. I remember recieving a message or two like that from Sir Nickolas. I give this movie, five out of five stars. It definately is a chick flick so bring your girls.

I am absoultly smitten with Ginnifer Goodwin in this movie.(left) She is completely adorable.

And I am obsessed with Jennifer Aniston's wishbone necklace she wore through out the entire movie. I now want one and am on the prowl.

XoXo

Athena

OMG!!!!!!!!

2009-02-06T16:38:00.001-08:00

THERE IS GOING TO BE A SEX AND THE CITY MOVIE SEQUEL!!!!!!! I'm excited, can't you freakin tell????

Why I Should Not- Be In Critical Thinking Class

2009-01-30T00:01:00.000-08:00

I've came to the conclusion after last nights class, that I should not be in critial thinking aka Philosphy 102. UNLV makes you take it for about 99% of their degrees and I happen to fall under the 99%. Go figure. And I had to get on my high horse and go to RateYourProfessor.com and find teachers with good scores so I would know who to embrace and who to stay away from. But my math teacher was so awesome last semester I got him again this semester. Yeah!

Back on to Critical Thinking. So my teacher I picked was recommended but alot of people quoted him as being "deep" I am not a deep person. I am a bubbly talkative person who sometimes get irrationally emotional and has a NyQuil problem, plus, procrasinates until the Due Date of everything. I hate thinking about the "meaning of life" and "death" I can't handle death. It makes me hypoventilate inside. So lo n behold, my teacher opens class with " Life is too short to stress because soon, I will be dead."
*jaw drops to ground* Life is too short and soon you will be dead, but do you have to bring that up? After thinking long and hard, I decide to go to my second class. And then it outlined critical thinking.

He stated that if your life is not a problem to you, it's a problem for you. Human life is something you must make sacrifice and sustainability. If you can do these things, you will have a meaningful one. In order to have a meaingful one, you will cash in possibilites and take up offers. You will work hard and long everyday. Things will not be easy but in the end, they will not be regreted.
He also said that "The issue is not what had happened but the issue is what happens next, the future."

It sounds funny, but I am still processing these things and what they mean to me. Especially his segment about how with your rights comes a set of responsibilites and if you choose not to act on them, then don't bother complaining about your rights. Considering law school, that tidbit just puts a whole spin on things. I know one thing is for sure. I will be thinking more rationally about things and events and how they pertain to me, not just the people around me. Because, even though I like to think it's all about me, it's not. I want my life to be one that is rational and one that I can stop and say, wow, that was pretty amazing when I reflect back upon. And I think recently, I've been doing a pretty snazzy job!

Athena

Big Love Is Here!!!! Big Love Is Here!!!!!!!!!!!

2009-01-18T00:55:00.000-08:00

Ever since I saw the premiere of Big Love, I've been hooked. No jaw. I am absoultly obsessed. I own both seasons on dvd and even got Nick hooked on the whow. And that's hard to do. So..... I am going to die from excitement because tonight is the night! Season 3 is finally here! Heres a little preview I snagged from Youtube

WebMD and You..... I mean me

2009-01-17T23:26:00.000-08:00

I am a hypocrondric. I really am. Everytime I hear of some disease with symptoms, I freak out and think that I have that disease or virus or infection and then my friends ( and Nick) have to hear about it for a week. I was scared I had too many moles for my own good and found a strange mark which the dermatologist diagnosed as a freckle. I think he was trying very had not to laugh at me. So for about a year I noticed a strange skin bump on my eyelid. I have been obsessed with it even though 95% of the people I show this to either a) can't see it and think its all in my head or b) think its just gravity pulling its weight on me. I mean, my eye isin't bulging, my vision isin't messed up and I don't seem to have any other weird serious symptoms going on. I even called my stepmom crying at midnight, convinced it was a tumor! ( And I highly doubt it is. ) Because when I pull my eye lid up, it simply disappears. And when you press on it, you can tell its skin. Hmmmm.
But, the best got to me tonight and I went on Web MD. I try to stay away from Web MD because I would probably diagnose myself with Lyme disease and start having a nervous breakdown or something. And now I feel silly. I really don't have any serious symptoms and the website diagnosed me with a skin lump with I can go to the doctor for and get antibiotics. Or it will even go away on its own eventually. Hmph. All that stress and worry for nothing. I am going to have my doctor look at it when I go to my check up in May but for now, I am taking it easy. And throwing away all of my old eye shadow and not touching my eyes anymore with dirty hands. Web MD says thas how I got it in the first place.

Athena

P.S Web MD does not take place of a doctor so if something is seriously wrong, go to one pronto!

Finally Back Into The Swing Of Things- 100 Random Things About Me!

2009-01-16T18:20:00.001-08:00

So, I'm finally committing back to a regular blogging schedule. I love my blog. It just ends up being neglected because I get caught up with so many other things going on in my crazy busy packed life. But enough excuses! And on to 100 awesome random things about moi!

1. I wasn't very social in high school. I am more than making up for it now.
2. I am 23 yrs old, born on Aug 15th.
3. My mom said she named me after her love for greek mythology. I can't figure if it was really that or just because she was heavily into the eighties.
4. I have a sister, a brother and another sister. I am 23 yrs older than her. What an age difference!
5. When I was 3 I tried to super glue my uncles hand to a beer can.
6. When I was 8, I claimed he pushed me off a bike. I really fell and was embarrassed. How demented I was!
7. I played with barbies until I was 13. I know I know I matured later rather than sooner. I'm still the same way!
8. My first kiss was when I was 16.
9. I used to have a coordnating bow to match my outfits. And fluffy bangs! What was I thinking?
10. When I was 9, I wanted to be the goddess Athena. Can we say stuck on myself much?
11. I moved to Las Vegas to be with the love of my life and I could not imagine doing anything more significant. Or scary.
12. I've been with Nick for almost 3 yrs. Thats the longest relationship of my life!
13. I love my job. Not alot of people can say that. I'm sure eventually I will move on to other things, but for right now, this is where God has me.
14. I am a criminal justice major. I change my major every week. I still don't know if I want to go to law school or be a forensic psychologist.
15. I am addicted to Starbucks in a unhealthy way.
16. Reading makes me extremely happy.
17. I heart mint tea.
18. Big Love and Niptuck are my current television obsessions.
19. I have a love hate relationship with the gym.
20. Target commercials to me are beautiful.
21. I am engaged but in no rush to get married. Or have kids.
22. I still sleep with a teddy bear I have had since I was 7.
23. I love to go dancing!
24. I sing very off key in my car.
25. I still prefer a piece of paper and a pen compared to a digital age.
26. I'm more of a gay men then 50% of them.
27. One day I will write the great american novel.
28. I'm way too social for my own good.
29. I hate staying home.
30. I am a crazy driver.
31. Black and hot pink are my favorite colors.
32. One day I will drive a pontiac solistice.
33. I am getting braces this year. I am ready to relive junior high.
34. I think sleeping is a waste of time but can't get enough of it.
35. I eat in bed. It drives Nick crazy! But he does it too!
36. I am an animal person. A big one! I adopted a rat from Petco and everything!
37. My favorite song is No Rain by Blind Melon.
38. I love fashion.
39. And fashion magazines.
40. And Target!!!!!
41. I babysit for side money. And make cute things on etsy!
42. My drink of choice is a shirly temple or Malibu Pineapple.
43. My middle name is Valentine.
44. I'm obsessed with animal print.
45. Nick proposed to me with my mothers wedding ring.
46. I collect sunglasses.
47. And purses.
48. Three's Company Too!

Okay your only going to get 48 things out of me. But I think thats enough randomness in the world about yours truly. I'm excited to have another hundred posts with you friends if only I could think about things to write about! Stay tuned!

December- A Recap

2009-01-01T22:18:00.000-08:00

Okay. I promised a more updated post about where I have been all month long. And this is my slide show. :)

Christmas Parties! I went to about a million of them. Okay, in all reality, it was seven. For somebody who wasn't social in high school, I sure am making a comeback! Malibu Rum and all!

I snuck away to Bullhead for a weekend and caught up with some family and friends. I am happy to report my sister has taken well to Dooney & Burke. She was upset when I left , I think not because I was leaving but because I was taking the purse with me.

Did somebody say snow? Las Vegas got about seven inches in some winter storm fluke. Nobody knew how to drive, including myself, and it ended up taking me an hour and a half to get home. It usually takes me about 15-20 minutes, depending on the usage of my led foot and some timing on the red lights.

I know I'm a goober, I made Nick take a picture of the city name sign. But I thought it looked bad ass.

My friend Valerie and her husband came to visit Las Vegas. We went to dinner at the ESPN Zone, got drinks at Fat Tuesdays, walked the strip and played air hockey at F A O Scwartz. I don't care what anybody says, I will still pronounce it Fao, not F A O. It sounds fancier. :)

I volunteered at a Christmas Party which was a community outreach program. Santa came in on Hot Rod and I drooled over various 65' Shelby Mustangs and 68' Chevelles.
I also worked the toy department, where I would have to go thru toys and hand them to the person standing next to the Santa Claus. It got hot, sweaty and stressful. Thats when I gave up, found my friends and ate hot dogs. But to my defense, other people wanted my section so I let them have it.

But that left for more exciting activites, like watching Sandy make skid marks in the hallway on bicycles. Don't worry, the bikes were handed out and we weren't caught. :)

I then went to Michigan for a week with Nick. We ate tones of food, did shopping and just relaxed. I love his family. Look at his niece, isin't she so freakin cute with him?

Nick and I snuck away for a sunset on the beach. The waves crashed into the snow walls that lined the shoreline and a sense of calm just washes over you. Until you realize your surronded my fellow cars and wonder what exactly are they doing in the back seat......

Our flight was running late, so instead of going through the terminal, they basically just kicked us out the door and had us run out to the flight and climb up a ladder to get in the airplane. I felt like such a jetsetter. Until the hillbilly in flip flops pushed me.

Today was Jan 1st, so not December, but I went shopping with Sandy and bought these adorable Coach shoes for...... $30.00 Original Price??? $129.00. Don't ask how... I have my ways....( Dillards was having an amazing shoe sale. It was perfect. )

Aren't they cute???? The end to my crazy month. I'm drinking some NyQuil and going to bed now. :)

Athena

New Year New Me

2008-12-22T17:22:00.000-08:00

I honnestly have tons more to blog about with cool photos and everything. But, needless to say, my photos are not uploaded off my cool new Samsung camera ( thanx babe!) So instead, I will blog about my cool new year resolutions! I will throw all those photos in a blog though I promise! It just may be after Nick and I return from Michigan, :)

1. Get healthy- I'm not even saying I want to lose weight or be able to run a marathon. Although, now that I think about it, that would be cool. I just want to be healthy and not have tons of health issues, like I have been having. Blah. This might include a weekend to myself where I just sit at home and stare at the wall.

2. Work on my money- I want to be wonderful with money and have tons of it. This might mean doing more for the etsy store, getting a new job, babysitting, but I need some more funds!

3. Do well in school- I really want to be at UNLV by 2010. I mean it. I'm done with this community college business. Blah.

4. Organize- I want to organize my apartment better and decorate. I always say this too. Blah.

5. Learn how to walk in high heels- I kinda stomp around when I wear these and I would love to walk like hedi Klum instead. :)

Athena

Hello Cleavland!

2008-12-10T14:25:00.000-08:00

Or Michigan or Colorado or wherever my blogging audience lives. ( Arizona, I didn't forget about you too!) I have been a very bad blogger and I can tell my blog feels neglected. It's just been nonstop with finals and work and social gatherings and getting sick and well, you get the drift. School is almost done though, I have my last two finals tomorrow and I'm ready to rock out! And maybe blog out too. You never quite know around these parts.......

The Pain

2008-11-12T22:58:00.000-08:00

Yeah Im in a lot of pain and thats why I've been an inactive blogger. My tooth broke Sunday night and I ended up having the whole thing extracted. And it ended up being surgery. I'm making an appointment with Nick's dentist to start the work on my pearly chompers. But until my mouth heels, I shall be quiet round these parts.

Mom Shop A Thon!

2008-11-05T22:48:00.000-08:00

I joined the Mom Shop A Thon this year on Tip Junkie which is ran by the fablous Miss Laurie. She really is a sweetheart and such a creative person and I'm honored to be able to post a link to my store on her fabulous site. For reference click here :

And you can always go to my etsy store thru its link on my sidebar or by clicking here:

athenavalentine.etsy.com

Can't Wait To Christmas Shop
Athena

Meet Your New President

2008-11-05T21:46:00.000-08:00

Thats right home skillets. It's Barack. And I didn't care that I was one in a sea of republicans in a bar. I screamed my little heart out when it flashed across the screen. What were they gonna do kick me out? Chuckie was drinkin beer!

Change. Its whats for dinner.

Athena

Let's Do The Time Warp Again!

2008-11-01T20:40:00.001-07:00

Happy Belated Halloween! We kicked off Halloween early this year by going to a show at The Venetian. The Blue Man Group was something I've been dying to see and was so excited when we scored tickets! *squeals with glee* We had awesome seats and were covered with toliet paper. Success! And of course, we took pics. Nick even got in on the action.

Last night we attended a local drag show and had a blast. See Tim Curry Below? I now have the time warp permantly stuck in my head.

We made a new friend! Maria Tortilla!

And last but not least, we met my dream man Mr. Post-It! I had to take a photo with him. And he actually won best costume! All in all, Halloween 08' was a blast! Hope everybody else had a good one.

XoXo

Athena

Barack Obama

2008-10-29T22:19:00.000-07:00

I remember two Christmas's ago when I was talking crap about Hilary Clinton. For some reason, I can't stand that woman. (entirely different blog entry) But, I did fall in love with Barack Obama and changed my political party about six months ago. I feel like all the people who fell in love with Robert F. Kennedy in the 60's. I feel like we are ready for a change and he is the one to bring it. Tonight when I watched his special, I started bawling and had to call my friend Jamie, the only one who crys at simple things with me. We're peas in a pod ;) . But it really moved me and I'm glad I never doubted my descion to vote for him two weekends ago. I'm tired of education and health care and outshoring jobs and it needs to be fixed. And no, John McCain won't be the one to do it. But my blog isin't to bash people, okay Sarah Palin, I can see Russia too, it's called a map, but in serialness, all of you need to get off your asses and go vote. Just vote for whoever benefits your needs. Just don't bitch to me if you don't vote. I'll punch you in your face.

XoXo
Athena

Dancing With The Stars- Hip Hop Edition!

2008-10-28T21:45:00.000-07:00

So, I haven't been able to sit down and watch t.v much except for about three shows since school started and I honestly miss Dancing With The Stars. So I was able to catch it tonight and I kinda had a what the fuck face on for most of it. They did a group dance and it was hip hop and maybe I'm byist by working in the ghetto everyday, but THIS IS NOT HIP HOP! Even Lance Bass from N'SYNC couldn't save it. Which made me sad, because being the ever optimistic faghag, I think Lance Bass is HOTT. ;) But don't take my word for it.

*The video is kinda funky, but it was the only one that really wouldn't freeze.*

XoXo
Athena

Monster Mash

2008-10-27T00:17:00.000-07:00

This past Saturday Nick and I attended Chuckie's mom's annual Halloween Bash. ( Did that make sense?) I originally was going to go as a slutty Alice but at the last minute I matched my costume with Nick. He went as a vampire and I went as a slutty Can Can Girl/ Nick's Victim. You can't see but I have blood smeared on my Nick. We've been watching too much True Blood lately.

We also went with Nick's friends to go see Saw 5. It wasn't the best one in the series and it kinda disappointed me. But.......

If I woke up in the box below, I'd be kinda crappy feeling too. I must say, I wonder how the last and final installment is going to turn out. I want to play a game.........

XoXo
Athena

Random Child Memory #247

2008-10-24T11:12:00.000-07:00

Convincing my parents to buy me the soundtrack from Wayne's World and my dad reancting this class scene from the movie in his car. Priceless.

Happy Friday
Athena

I'm Not Saying This To Anyone In Particular...

2008-10-22T10:55:00.000-07:00

but it's really starting to piss me off that people think that I have no life because

A.) I have no children and
B.) Because I'm not married.

I'm not going to sit here and bad mouth people who are these things because I get excited when these things happen to my friends and family. I'm very supporitive and willing to celebrate. But I do get naucous when I think about these things happening to me. I'm simply not ready for these things because they take a big commitment and I have other things on mind, mainly school and figuring out how to fund a Chanel bag. But people just assume because I don't have these things everything else I do just isin't important. And I'm not saying watching a South Park marathon with Nick or running away to Gay Days at Disneyland is as equally important as watching your kid walk for the first time but damn people, throw me a bone here. I have nothing to compare your life too! And it's not just one person that does this to me, it's alot of people. It is some friends and work and family. I do have a life. And I have started my own family. It may not be a husband and children, but it's a fiance who would do anything for me and people who hold my hand when I hypervenalite on a roller coaster and my vanilla mommy and two darling little creatures who live in my dining room table and depend on me for everything. And that too me is equally important. :)

XoXo
Athena

p.s again, im not saying this into anyone particular so don't get your panties in a bunch. i'm just saying.

Clutter Be Gone

2008-10-20T10:46:00.001-07:00

*How Nick sees me every morning, instead of on the bed it's the couch or closet floor....*

I can't remember when I started realizing I was a hardcore pack rat. I think when it came to going over to friends houses, I realized a) I really was living it up as a only child and b) I had tons of junk. Flash forward to the year 2008 and a) I don't really live it up as a only child anymore but its cool and b) I still have tons of junk. I'm surronded by clothes and knick kancks and useless upon useless shit. I don't even know why I own half the shit I own besides I feel guilt getting rid of things and I feel sentimental towards it. But why? It's just a freakin object. So I am making it my new mission besides getting healthy ( which I actually worked out and bought Trader Joes out of business last night) but I want to lead a cleaner more relaxed life. I am going to start cutting things out that just take up energy and give me no pleasure. First thing to go, the Avon link on the side bar. I love beauty products but just can't get into it. I hope by doing this I can put more time into my etsy store and if I get really strapped for cash, I can always pick up a side job like babysitting or making some cards for people who requested it. And I honnestly am going to start selling things I can sell on Ebay and Craigslist because even though the economy is in the crappy, people are stilling buying junk. Life is too short to waste time and energy on things that don't reward you. And I'm beginning to figure that out.

XoXo
Athena

I don't like Uggs

2008-10-19T22:45:00.000-07:00

But these keep callin my name over and over again in this nice grey. I'm sure for $144.00 I am going to keep drooling over them for awhile but I might sign up for some extra babysitting jobs when I feel better to pay for them. :)

My new Love

2008-10-19T18:55:00.000-07:00

Nick needs to move over. These shoes I picked up today for $24.99 might be sleeping next to me tonight. They are Mia 2 in the style called Ridge.

A Hospital Room is Just like Every Other

2008-10-16T17:31:00.000-07:00

I have been off and on tired pretty much since I started back with school. With school, work, having a fiance, friends and family, you might want to say my time is stretched to the t's. And I know you probably find this funny, but I hardly blog as much as I want to and I have even put a hiatus on scrapbooking which made me sad. So, I have had the worst cold and just couldn't kick it this past week and then guess where I end up? The hospital. Figures. I'm okay now but I honnestly thought I was going to pass out at the hospital. It was just an infection in my lungs which they sent me home with medicine to fix it right up. And I missed two midterms and a huge project in my political science class. I was able to wing some stuff but I am very upset about the whole mess.

I think I'm just venting on this blog but I'm glad I honnestly was sick and not just being lazy as I was. I was put on bed rest but I feel so much better. I am still pledging to take it easy, but I am also going to incorporate some fresh healthy foods, more rest, and better time management skills. So here's to taking it easy, at least until I go home next month for a mini vacation. :)

XoXo
Athena

See A Penny, Pick It Up!

2008-10-13T12:02:00.000-07:00

I don't really do this for the luck though. I do it because, pennies add up. So does dimes and nickels and quarters and spare dollars. Nick and I combine all our change which is pretty difficult since we both do not shop with cash ( we're big card people) but in a little over a year, we have saved about $175.00 together. Probably more if we cleaned out our cars. But since this change turned into big bucks has motivated me, I am now more determined to save save save! I love you pennys!

XoXo
Athena

Motivate Me!

2008-10-08T11:07:00.000-07:00

I am dying here. I am in Week Seven of school, two months after my 23rd birthday and into my second week of October. I am not caught up with school work, accomplished really any of my goals for my 23rd year or, decorated my house. This frustrates me. Why you ask? Because I constantly feel tired and want to take naps. And I doubt it's because I have something wrong with me. It's probably just me being lazy, to be perfectly honest. I don't feel like I have to be everything under the sun. I don't feel the utter most need to compare myself to people to be better than them. I just think I lose track of time and it frustrates me. Like, I really shouldn't be sitting her blogging. :O I should be slaving over alegbra problems. Should be are the keywords.I really want to not become a better person, but a better Athena. ( creepy, I just talked in thrid person) I want to achieve my goals and say, whoa, look what I accomlished! Don't I feel ten times better? It's just a question of motivation I assume. So my question to all of you is, what do you do to stay motivated?

XoXo
Athena

The Other Boelyn Girl

2008-10-05T21:38:00.001-07:00

Dear Other Boelyn Girl,

When I saw you on the shelf the other day, I decidedly put you in my pile. I meant to read you after the movie but you looked so intimading with all your pages, I shrunk back on fear. But since I had nothing better to do homework wise you appeared to be a good time killer and oh how you were.

I couldn't put you down. Not once. I haven't felt this way since Tori Spelling's autobiography. My mind raced back to royal courts, forbidden passion and cunning ambition. I do have to say I think Anne Boelyn is a bitch though. She did some pretty screwed up stuff to Mary. But I kept wondering what was she, or any of the other Boelyns, were going to do next. Like get themselves banished to France. Or poison the Queen off. Suspense suspense suspense! All for Anne and George getting their ass on that chopping block.

I give you five outta five stars Other Boelyn girl. You kept me reading when others lately chose to fail. You kept my mouth dropping for more, all 738 pages of you. And that is why you shall wear those stars proudly!

XoXo

Athena

Disneyland Pt One

2008-10-05T21:20:00.000-07:00

I am exhausted. I spent 12 + hrs at the Disneyland but had the time of my life doing it. We took a late night car ride Friday to party it up all day on Saturday. We invented the hot mess game and over dosed on churros. We screamed our way through the rollercoaster twice and got dizzy during the teacups. We invented new sayings and counted red shirts. The night ended up being perfect by caping it off with "Last Dance" All in all it was pretty bad ass.

If Anybody Needs Me......

2008-10-02T12:06:00.000-07:00

I'll be here!

October Goals I mean Ideas

2008-10-01T11:14:00.000-07:00

I nolonger have monthly goals. I never complete them which I'm not sure motivates me more or just depresses me. So now I have some "ideas" to help me along the way.

1. Eat healthy so I can fit into my Halloween Costume.

2. Use less electricity during my everyday life. And gas.

3. Eat less meat.

4. Start saving money for Chirstmas.

5. Keep my house clean for once.

6. Keep up with school work, reading and scrapbooking.

7. And last but not least, start a thankful journal.

I tend to see negativity and would like to change that. So I'm starting a thankful journal before I pass out. And on to see how this month portrays me!

XoXo
Athena

Falling Into Fall

2008-10-01T11:01:00.000-07:00

Typically, this is what fall looks like, which is beautiful in my opinion.

However, I live in Las Vegas which blesses my reality of fall like this:
How sad am I? But, I do like to pretend it's fall. I have become quite creative due to my many years in the desert. So instead of my favorite things about fall list, its going to be more like pretending its fall list. And I plan on pretending by:

1. Ordering Pumpkin Spice Latte at Starbucks instead of White Chocolate Mocha. Mmm, Starbucks.

2. Hanging up all my cute Halloween decor. ( I plan on doing this next weekend when I have some time. )

3. Hot Chocolate.

4. Pumpkin Pie.

5. Yankee Candles which seduce me with scents of Vanilla Cookie, Pumpkin Pie & Apple Cinnamon.

6. Cute skinny jeans from Old Navy.

7. Cuter scarfs and hats.

8. Scary movies.

9. Daydreaming about leaf piles.

10 . Hoping that the weather will dip below the 90's soon.

I envy all of you that actually have seasons. I am seasonless in this desert. I only have hot, extremely hot and kinda cool. I would love to have a coat collection but honnestly the only thing u need hear is a slightly heavy peacoat and your good to go. So hears to me pretending!

U N L V! UNLV GO FIGHT WIN!

2008-09-29T22:21:00.000-07:00

Last Saturday I experienced my very first intense rival game, the famous match up between UNLV and UNR. I had never heard so many **** *** in my life. Or seen so many people in red or blue. I guess it all depends on how you look at it. I had tons of fun, how could I not with the threes company crew plus Renaldo? Famous quote of the night: " If you get the Chuckie, you get the Athena and Sandy. You get all three of us!" If thats not true I honnestly don't know what is. :)

p.s did anybody notice how we had a photoshoot with our posse but none of the game?

This place looks like a hot tranny mess up in here!

2008-09-24T21:55:00.000-07:00

Everytime I watch this it cracks me up. I seriously say tranny and hot mess all the time. Examples:

" Quit bein such a tranny!"
"Did you see that lady? She looked like a hot mess."

XoXo
Athena

I'll defend you to a T!

2008-09-24T21:17:00.000-07:00

I absoultly love purses. My earliest memory about my deep infatuation: I'm about several years old and I'm teling my mom I need a big girl purse during our annual back to school shopping adventure. She humors me and not only do I get a hot pink leather purse, I also get a hot pink blossom style hat and hot pink chuck taylors to match! God I'm stylin!I remember stuffing it with change for the snack bar, some lip gloss and tissue my grandma told me to take. I don't want to say it marked my adventure into womanhood, but it was one of those finer moments in life, along with my first manicure and the time my mom let me get the Rachel do. :)

Flash forward sixteen years later and now I can actually afford some purses. Although it may not be the Dolce & Gabanna bag I drool over, I have some Kathy bags to my name along with my candy purse from Dooney & Burke Nick's mom has blessed me with. :) I am also currently in love with a Coach purse that has my name all over it in plum. I work hard and I figure if I am already paying off my debts and saving money, why can't I splurge here and there? So I treat myself like any other red-blooded woman with a Visa would do. So you could understand my temper in defending my purse today at school.

We were talking about jeans and how some people are willing to spend up to 400 dollars a pair. Some people think it's ridiculous, others see why. And then girls start talking smack about the girls who will buy those jeans and how their superficial because they buy expensive clothes at to get looked upon but probably are un-intelligent and have nothing worth while to say. Ummm, excuse me, but seriously, what truck did these bitches come off of? Seriously. I raise my hand and said the thing that got me the gold star of the day( literally my English teacher gives us gold stars if we say something half way intelligent. I love him.) :

" Okay, I might not spend 400 dollars on a pair of jeans but I do like my purses. I have spent a bill or two. And I'm not un-intelligent. I can hold a conversation with you. Am I just a superficial skank?"

The girls went on to say that they just don't believe in it because they would rather save their money. Okay. I'm sure you would rather save your money. I have money saved too. I'm actually now smart about my finances. I just think some of my fellow females are just catty towards each other. I can't even tell you how many girls eye me up and down and then focus in on my neck or wrist on that flashy little heart, asking to be returned to a little place in New York called Tiffany & Co.

I'm sure todays conversation was meant to be taking with a grain of salt. And I'm glad everybody has an opinion. But serousily. Don't be hatin on the Kathy! Cause if your hatin on the Kathy, what happens when I walk in with the Dolce & Gabanna??? :)

XoXo

Athena

Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off

2008-09-21T20:52:00.000-07:00

My clothes actually stay on quite nicely when I have tequila. I just get really sick and worship the porcelian god instead. But on Saturday night I met up with the other members of Three's Company and had a karoke night. Chuckie sang a sweet song while Sandy and I drank pineapple rum. Ahh, just a nice little get together if I do say so myself. :)

I swear I wasn't trying to bitch slap her. I was actually wiping her cheek. :)
Like the new do??
Editors Note: See the sparkly green top I'm wearing? I haven't been able to fit itno that in FOREVER. Thank you Wii Fit!

Accessories, Here I Come!

2008-09-19T20:19:00.001-07:00

I had a ephiany yesterday in school. I was sitting there, drooling over some girls outfit when I realized, I am not living up to my full fashion potential! I mean, I always talk smack about other people, but I bet people talk smack about me too! (Stupid unfashionable girl in the Boys And Girls Club shirts everyday) But, to my defense, its just alot easier when your running from class to work, four days a week. But alas, I'm making some fashion changes!

Now, although I vowed to myself not to buy any clothes until the day after Thanksgiving ( Nick and I have a huge shopping spree planned out. And I have been working out on my Wii Fit and dropping some pounds rather nicely.), I didn't say anything about accessories! First purchase:

This beautiful bohemian scarf from Avon. I know I sell Avon and it might sound byist, but I seriously just saw the same exact scarf in a issuse of Marie Claire, but from Urban Outfitters and it cost $42.99! The wonderful price for mine? $16.00 smackers! Woop Woop! ( and I used my Avon discount) Next piece of resistance:

This beautiful hat, again from Avon. I found one in the mall for $20.00 and I paid a sweet $7.00 ( plus discount). Ooo la la! I got the one in cream, but I'm sure it will look just as cute as the chocolate in the picture.

Thats all I bought for now. I don't think my next purchase will be coming from Avon but rather Savers or a yard sale. I'm looking for a Pucci type print scarf to dress up my Kathy Van Zealand bag and some navy and green gypsy bead necklaces. I shall keep you all tuned in to my fashion escapdes!

XoXo
Athena

Go Irish!

2008-09-19T19:43:00.001-07:00

It's kinda hard when a Michigan fan and a Notre Dame fan share a bed. Luckily, it's only mentioned when the big game comes. And last weekend, I finally won the bragging rights in my house when Notre Dame won! I kinda think its a fluke, but I'll take what I can get. Touchdown Jesus!

XoXo
Athena

Elise, Nick and Julaine, please don't hate me! :O

I wish I could make out with......

2008-09-17T11:37:00.000-07:00

Thats right. Google. I can't even begin to explain to people how much I'm obsessed with it. The only other person who can possibly understand how much I love this site it possibly Val or Sandy. Because it's like a crystal ball without the fourtune teller creepy lady who asks you for five dollars. It can tell you ANYTHING.

Does somebody really own their house? Oh Sandy can find out and get back to you with an hour. Do you need some advice for a legal venture? Let Val know and she'll forward it to you.

And anytime I question what somebody tells me ( mainly people I'm arguing with) I say, let me get back to you. The I bust out the cellphone and google it at my sparkly fingertips. Anytime I don't know something, my catchphrase is " Let me Google it!" I think I noticed my obsession though when I wondered how much money James Earl Jones was paid to do the voice of Darth Vader. And my wonderful Star Wars obsessed shiny Nickel says " Why don't you Google it babe?"

Gotta love it when great minds think alike!

XoXo
Athena

p.s and if anybody else was wondering how much he got paid to do star wars, it's a couple million dollars, nothing like the other stars because he refused to be in the credits due to the controversary when Linda Blair was nominated for an oscar. If anyone doesn't know what I'm talking about, you can google it. :)

Scrapbook Convention- Las Vegas Style!

2008-09-14T19:43:00.000-07:00

My friend Miss Terilyn found out that Las Vegas was having it's very own scrapbook convention! So we went to a early breakfast and drove all the way to Cashman Center to check it out. I don't want to say I had high hopes, but I honestly did ( so did she). It wasn't too shabby but ummmm, we had a much funner ( is that a word?) time at the Scarp N Time store afterwards. But I want to say the whole thing was a learning experience, because I did some tutorials and learned the proper way to us stamps and watercolor pencils. I am tres excited to start stamping away! The whole thing also inspired me to try out some new creative ventures which I shall post later this week. But as for now, I must get back to learning about kinetic and potential energy *yawn* Somebodys gotta do it. :)

XoXo
Athena

operation declutter-day one

2008-09-07T19:50:00.000-07:00

* not my kitchen counter but pretty darn close*

So yesterday while Nick took a nap, I decluttered the kitchen. I made a couple boxes on the couch with labels ( donate, giveaway,try to sell) found a garbage bag and went to town.
I'm embarrassed to even type this, but I ended up chucking out 4 trash bags of old, forgotten about food. ( I told it was embarrassing.) I was embarrassed running figure amonts of how much grocery money I was throwing away. I also was embarrassed thinking how many people are going to bed hungry while I chuck out enough food to feed about 30 of them. I know it's a little too early for New Years resoultions but I made one to myself to not be so wasteful of food and money. And after realizing this goal, I made a plan to help conquor it. My plan was to make a meal plan for the entire week. I think this is alot easier than dwelling about what to pack for school since I can just toss it in my lunch box and go. I also made a shopping list and stuck to only buying the items on it. I'm going to work on it all week and see how it goes. It requires self discipline but I'm getting some of that. ( hello algebra homework)

On the brightside, I ended up filling the donate box to the brim and wound up with a couple items I'm going to try to sell. ( does anybody like holly hobby plates???)

XoXo
Athena

IPig

2008-09-06T15:51:00.000-07:00

While browsing on Peta2's website, I found this awesome IPig. Is he not the cutest thing ever? I'm positive my ITouch will fit nice and snuggly. He is going on my Chirstmas list for sure! To see more of him click here

Take Me Out To The Ball Game

2008-09-06T12:23:00.000-07:00

Sandy scored awesome tickets to the 51's game a couple of weeks back. Nick and I went with her and the kids and we had an awesome time! Thanks Sandy!

My Birthday Party!

2008-09-06T12:16:00.001-07:00

My friends totally rock. On August 15th, I turned 23 and they threw me a birthday party! My directions were to bring Nick and show up at the bowling lanes. And they took care of the rest. I love them and I want to say thank you for everything you do for me. I couldn't ask for more!

It's Here! Confessions Of A Shopaholic Is Here!

2008-09-04T22:19:00.000-07:00

Who's watching it with me?????

Tonight, I'm cleaning out my closet!

2008-08-27T20:15:00.000-07:00

My oh my. What would I do for any of these celeb closets? ( My personal favorite is Kimora's by the way.) But, since my car repairs cleaned me out of house and home, I decided to start going through our apartment and start selling all I can on Ebay! Or Half.com because I do have a couple text books just collecting dust. Come to think of it, I have lots of junk collecting dust. I'm also going to be selling more AVON and things on Etsy. If you like either one, don't be shy, click my links on the side! I will keep everybody updated though with all my Ebay junk. I guess that's what I'll be doing this labor day weekend since I'll be too broke to do anything else. ;)

XOXO
Athena

The wheels on the car go round and round.....

2008-08-26T14:53:00.000-07:00

So today was my first major car problem with my Corolla, purchased from my good friend Jamie when she moved across the country. She had the car for a couple years and while it was used, it gave her no problems and ran good. This is why I insisted on buying it from her because you just don't know where cars come from and for that very fact I was not interested in buying from Craigslist. The car has been running smoothly since I've had for a year already with only having to replace a battery cable here and there. And then all of a sudden it happened......

My car broke! Well, broke is a strong word. It just wouldn't start this morning at the gas station which angered me because I was on my way to school. But after I spent about half an hour of praying and fidgeting with things, it finally started and I found a local mechanic who had just opened so I was able to squeeze right in. Bottom line= I needed a new starter and some new belts. Final cost= $600.00 Ouch. I seriously ate it. I was just glad I had that money saved up and hadn't been wasting it on stupid stuff. I'm really upset that because I also had to use part of my paycheck on Friday and after bills, won't even have most of it. *tear* My emergency account also had to be used up in account of more textbooks I had to buy for school. So now, I am BROKE.
Alot of people might say this was bound to happen with an older car. I don't agree. This happens with cars PEORID. I was replacing stuff left and right with my ZX2 and that car was only 3 1/2 years old. I had to buy a new timing belt, transmission, belts, exhaust, clutch ( numerous times). You have to replace things with any car. It's called wear and tear on your vehicle. And some people have a new car that doesn't even have a warranty so it doesn't really matter in some cases whether the car is new or not. Still, even with having to spend 600 today to fix it, thats less than what some people pay on their car in two months in PAYMENTS. So I guess, I'm still good to go! I am going to invest in some things the guy recommended after I have my father or my Grandpa Roger check them out. I plan on this car lasting me another year, two if I can stretch it. Getting out of my debts is alot more important than buying a new car. And for me, I think thats a smart choice.

XOXO
Athena

Let's Get Physical....Physical

2008-08-24T20:48:00.000-07:00

I am totally chaneling Olivia right now (look at that headband!). I started working out again and eating right and I lost 5 lbs! Today I went to Freash And Easy, kinda like a Trader Joes but not has hardcore hippie as Chuckie would say. ( I do love me some Trader Joes though) I bought tons of healthy stuff for lunches and breakfasts and a couple dinners so I'm ready to go on the eating part for the week. And I have planned a couple more work out sessions with Chuckie and Sandy so I am ready to lose 5 more! My getting healthy goal is coming along quite nicely if I do say so myself.

XOXO
Athena

School Bells Ring...Are You Listening?

2008-08-24T00:10:00.000-07:00

Okay. I think I'm actually refering about sleigh bells but this is college so, I had to switch it up a bit. Now, for those of that actually know me, you know I took a long break from school. Whatever. You waste two years, you live, you learn, you get over it. I'm glad I got my butt in action now though or in all honnesty, it probably wouldn't have happened at the speed it did. I had to come up with funds to pay for it myself ( but my Grandma Linda did help me out with books and I'm extremely grateful) and I had to argue, plead and cry with people to let me in their class. Well no crying was involved but I did have to stalk my math professor down. I had to figure things out on my own because nobody really knew the answers to m questions. But, I'm extremely proud of myself that I've come so far in a month with this. I am a full time student ( I'm actually taking 5 instead of the recommended 4) and I know if I buckle down and concentrate I can get things done. But I'm not worried, just anxious to see how my work load will be. And after school 4 days a week, I have to rush to work. But on Mondays and Wednesdays, I have a couple free hours. I don't think I will feel the need to lock myself up to get things done, but I know there will be nights I would rather be drinking pineapple rum then studying for a math test. But hopefully, if I stay on top of everything, this will just be another step in making myself more fabulous!

One More Day

2008-08-22T13:19:00.000-07:00

Seriously. I have about 5 hours and 40 minutes left of our Summer Camp Program. And in all honesty, it's alot shorter than that. I have to work a open house event for the nearby elementry school for two hours and then get to leave a half hour early to set up for that. And then I get an hour lunch break to run around and do some errands, like to run around to the bank and the college and buy a textbook. So in all actuality, I have an hour and 40 mins. But I am so done with kids. This 9 to 6 schedule of hearing them whine and fight and tattle is killing my mojo. I'll be so happy when we're closed all next week. But then I also have to worry about being a full time + colllege student starting next week. ( Five classes, if anyone is wondering)
I can do it, I totally rock. But still, my tummy has butterflies........

XOXO
Athena

Link Love

2008-08-19T13:33:00.000-07:00

So alot of bloggers do this from time to time and I think I might show you guys some of the cool things I find.

Over at Hostess With The Mostess she talks about a party designed after Nicky Hiltons Dining Room. Where do I sign up for an invite???

ooo la la

At The Domestic Diva, she talks about sewing rooms and inspiration boards. I kinda have just a bullitin board with reminders posted all over it and movie ticket stubs but after seeing this work of art, I'm smitten. The photo is curtesy of Anthropoligie, but her blog has tons of helpful tips and ideas.

Love At First Sight

Seriously The Best Movie Ever

2008-08-19T10:05:00.000-07:00

Caught it the other night on Comedy Central. Nick and I couldn't stop laughing. It seriously is the best movie ever. Everytime you watch it you find something new to make fun of. I love books, movies and films like that.

XOXO
Athena

Guide To Saving Money In Your Twenties

2008-08-18T11:38:00.000-07:00

Now, I pick up pieces here and there of financial advice, but I honnestly thought this list on MSN was a good one. It's about saving money in your twenties, but I think anyone at any age could use some of it. You can happily read away by clicking here

To Budget Or Not Budget?

2008-08-18T00:17:00.000-07:00

So, I've been getting pretty into financial blogs lately and reading up on finances with books like The Automatic Millionaire. I know you might be weary, but I honestly have cut back on buying stupid crap, going out to eat and spending money with friends. But, that's not the point of this blog. The point of this blog is to talk about budgets.

To Budget or Not To Budget? That is the question.

I obviously have bills. Okay, everybody has those. And I have an income. Everybody has ( or should have) this. But my question is, should I sit down and write everything out on paper so I don't spend excess of what I have?

One of my new years resolutions this past year was to write out everything I spent my money on. This lasted for about two days. But I'm thinking of doing it again. And no matter how scary it is, I'm thinking about putting myself on a budget again.

I read in the automatic millionaire that you shouldn't be on a budget because they don't work and make you depressed. That makes me sad, I don't like being depressed. But maybe it's good to have a reality check once in awhile?

I am working on three things though at the moment with my finances. I am working on establishing an emergency fund, paying off a medical bill ( its actually a small one because the rest was covered by the hospital I went to) and trying to acquire what people call no spend days. Days where you absolutely spend no money on anything. Pretty classy I do say so. And smart.

I wondered for awhile if I should even blog about finances. A lot of people do it anonymously which is what I pondered doing as well. And who am I to say I haven't? ;) But, I've noticed in society, people never want to talk about money. Money makes people ugly and bitter. Money makes people fight. I don't want to fight about money or act like it's a dirty subject when people bring the subject up. I want to say, yes I have financial goals I'm working on because I am a strong person who wants a good life for myself. And it's better to realize this now when I'm 23 then when I'm 43. And maybe some of you can get support or ideas for yourself to use. :)

Now, does anybody have any ideas? Any ideas to help me budget or save moolah? Because I'm all for tips and ideas. :)

XOXO
Athena

School Supply Shopping

2008-08-17T18:40:00.000-07:00

Its official I am a nerd.

I went back to school shopping for the first time since high school I think. Okay, no, since college in Arizona, but still. I got a warm fuzzy feeling when looking at cool steals for pencils and paper (but I stayed away from colored pens, I swear. I have a growing collection at home.) But I found the coolest pencil case, made out of recycled juice boxes. My friend Bea used to have a purse similar to the one on the right. These are now available at your local Target or, you can see them by going to online for a preview.

< terracycle

The Academy Award Goes To.......

2008-08-15T14:10:00.001-07:00

I have been nominated for a blog award!

It's a blog award silly. Sallie's Niece nominated me for one and I'm honored. I like awards and I like to blog. Now, I am suppose to nominate 9 people for this award and although I don't really have the nine to nominate, I will post links and descriptions to the people that inspire me to blog.

Fabulously Broke In The City

will shows me that a gal who has some serious fashion taste can get it done while still maintaining a savings account.

The Domestic Diva

because someday, even though it's a secret, I would like to be somewhat domestic.

Sallie's Niece

is so refreshing to me. She is honest and I love honesty.

Oh Happy Day

likes pretty things. I love pretty things.

I am reliatvely new to blogging and I'm sure as time progresses I will be sure to yack up some more blogs. For a list of blogs I frequent, you can always look to my right. Stay tuned for the academy awards, part deux, out soon!

XOXO
Athena

Food For Thought

2008-08-15T14:06:00.001-07:00

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

I was born this day, 23 years ago. I don't feel like I'm getting older, just wiser.

This year is gonna be the year I get things done. I just know it. :)

Athena

The Best Thing Since Sliced Bread......

2008-08-14T21:48:00.000-07:00

Is my sister. She turned six months old today and I love her unconditionally.

It's A Baby Shower!

2008-08-14T21:36:00.000-07:00

So during my last trip home I went to Sarah's baby shower. This was one of the best baby showers I had ever went to. I love Sarah and everybody in her family. And because Sarah is so awesome, she pretty much recieved the entire lot at Babies R Us. I was the official photographer designated by her aunt and I had a fabulous time taking the pics. All in all, this shower was an awesome success!!!!

Need A New Hobby? Try Personal Finance!

2008-08-07T20:54:00.000-07:00

So after my money crisis, I realized a couple of things. Like, what the hell am I doing with my money? And that I should have an emergency fund saved up just in case. Because my is an older car. I love it to bits but it needs some work. And hopefully it will be cheap but it still needs some help. But I want to keep it because I have NO CAR PAYMENT. And for the newly financial savvy me, thats a good deal.

I also realized I spend a good chunk of change on crap. But I haven't honestly for about two weeks. I'm excited about that. And I'm excited that I still have most of my paycheck leftover from last week. And all my bills are paid. I can save money when I want to, it's just not often.

So my new hobby on my way to a new financial savvy me is personal finance. Right now, I'm reading The Automatic Millionarie and I also have been reading how some of my fellow females are handling their debts. Their listed on my current sidebar but you can also click on this list if you don't feel like going through all of them.

Sallie's Niece

Well Heeled

Fabulously Broke In The City

Sick Of Being Poor

Dreaming Of Ferrais

I get really inspired when I read their open blogs. They do it serectively which would probably be something I would do. It really makes me want to start one actually. But for now I'll just read and acquire some tips. And I hope you can do the same. :)

XOXO
Athena

Impulsive Buying....Me??? Never!!!

2008-08-07T12:51:00.001-07:00

So, the other night Nick decided he needed some live play cards for his XBOX and the Wii. The live cards are just cards you buy so you can have points to buy games that you download onto your system. And the person he is, we had to go buy them instead putting in his credit cards. Very smart though. So we proceed to Target. And then it hits me. Dollar Target.
Now, I love me some Dollar Target. It's various junk that you can buy for * gasp* a dollar. Sometimes things are 2.50 but thats a rarity. And you can find the coolest things. Like card making supplies, knick knacks, baby items and beauty products. The exact reasons I should not be allowed into the dollar section.
"Ooooo," I gasp looking at a card making kit. " I could use this for..."
"No, you don't need it," Nick says firmly.
"Look at these door beads! Aren't they cute?"
"You don't need that dear."
"Look at this clock! And this picture frame!"
"No dear."
"Ummmm, but look at this cute set!"
"NO! YOU DON'T NEED IT!!!! PUT IT DOWN!!!!"
I sulk out of the dollar target section and out of the section.
"Now don't you feel better because you didn't spend any money?"
Sort of. But now it makes me wonder how much money I've pissed away when I didn't have anybody there to hold my hand.
XOXO
Athena

Mamma Mia- Here I Go Again

2008-08-05T22:32:00.001-07:00

So, as a birthday present, Maddie and Sioux took me to see Mamma Mia. I absoultly loved the movie! It made me go buy the soundtrack and I seriously want to come up with money to go see the show live. So please don't freak out if you see a girl rocking out hardcore to some ABBA. It's probably me :)

PRINCE!

2008-08-05T22:22:00.000-07:00

I was super duper excited when my friends and I met up Friday night and saw Purple Reign, a Prince cover band. But of course, when you have pineapple rum in you, your not really thinking this is some random short guy that has sideburns and wears hours worth of makeup. You think it's PRINCE!!!!!!

If Only You Really Knew

2008-08-05T14:09:00.000-07:00

How ugly I think crocs really are. I hate them. And you know what I hate even more? That parents let their kids decorate them now. Like that is going to make them cuter. So I was cracking up when this guy was calling to end crocs. I'm jumping on his band wagon.

http://www.newsweek.com/id/150240/>1=43002

XOXO
Athena

A Year Under The Influence

2008-07-31T22:26:00.000-07:00

So I'm about to be 23 in *drumroll* 15 days. I'm not siked but I like my birthday so I am excited. I plan on cosmic bowling and root beer floats that make my tummy swoon. But, I'm weary. Is this the year that I make life happen for myself or sit back and let it happen?

I usually do goals but for some reason, they never really stick. So, what about ideas? Ideas that I have for myself at this stage in my life.

1. Finish my AA degree. This is a very possible idea. I ended up not having as many classes as I thought I had left so UNLV will probably be my school by this time next year.

2. Become a healthier me. Notice how I didn't say, lose tons of weight. Yeah, I would love to wake up one day and be noticebly slimmer. But this won't happen. I'm realistic. I am going to start taking care of myself by sleeping more, eating healthier, excersing, meditation and keeping good care of my health.

3. Become a financial guru. Okay, guru might be too strong of a word, but I do want to become more financially independent and well off. I want to have a savings account and not have to borrow money off people for unexpected finances, like school. If I just keep telling myself I'm broke, it might do the trick.

4. Along with the lines of financial guru, I want to be somewhat out of my debt. I think if I work hard and stay on top of it, this is another possibility.

5. Be more creative. I want to do one creative thng a week, be it making a new dish or organzing and decorating my closet. I feel like there are so many things I want to try and not enough time in the day.

So thats about it. I'm ready to take on my year at being 23. Bring it on!

Droolworthy, no?

2008-07-30T22:56:00.000-07:00

Maybe as a birthday present? It says you can change out the sash to match your mood. I have different moods. And it says it would be wonderful for school. I'm finally back in school.....

Ok I can make up all the excuses I want. But heres the link if anybody would like to buy it for my birthday :)

Etsy Fundraiser

2008-07-30T22:37:00.000-07:00

I am an extreme animal lover and believe in pet rights. Sadly, alot of others do not. In honor of my dedication to helping when I can, I will be donating 20% of my earnings from my etsy store! Please check out the banner and follow the link

My etsy store link is athenavalentine.etsy.com. You can't miss me, I do cute scrapbook layouts. :)

XOXO
Athena

What I Really Want

2008-06-07T23:41:00.000-07:00

Is a Sex And The City closet aka Carrie's. The movie just brought up memories of how drool worthy her wardrobe really is. The character ( and SJP herself) really inspires me to try to take my fashion to the next level. *swoons* And I also found a cool website that lets you take fashion cues fro the movie. Pleas click http://www.asos.com/Sexandcitywlp020608/Cat/pgehtml.aspx?cid=5006 to play around with the looks.

Just A Little Neourtic

2008-06-02T23:13:00.000-07:00

So, after much consideration, Nick and I have decided to keep the rat. Miss Minelli is our first pet together and I'm hoping it goes much more smoothly then keeping her at the Boys And Girls Club. Anyhoo, I researched proper rat care and found out some intresting things. Such as she should be eating meat in her diet. So much for my children being vegetarian. I also learned she should be getting exercise in her cage everyday. She could develop fatty tumors if she doesn't. So, I bought her a huge wheel she could run around the apartment in. And then she pooped herself in it. So much for that idea. She also didn't like the toys we bought her. The only thing she truly likes, is Nick holding her. I rescue her and he gets all the credit. Figures.

mini goals for june

2008-06-01T19:36:00.000-07:00

I love new starts. Like the beginning of every month where you can sit back and think about what you would like to accomplish. I've thought hard and long and decided to make a list. It kinda goes like this:

1. Work out harder at the gym. I've been pumping it but I feel like its time to step it up a notch.

2. Save moolah! I did alot better this month about mindless spending but I need to keep on top of it or I will have slipups like I did this weekend. I also need to step it up with the Avon.

3. Work on my etsy store! I have plenty of ideas for my cards and layouts, they just need to be emphasized.

4. Organize at home! I feel like the organizing bug bit me! I have to do at work this week for inspections but I'm also going to be doing it at home. I also feel like purging some things and selling them on ebay or Amazon.com

5. Cook at least 4 new meals. My vegetarianism is in full swing and I need to take time to start making new things.

I'm pumped for this month. I feel like everything is going to fall into place for my new motivated self.

( I'm a little exclamation point happy tonight. :)

Sex And The City- The Movie

2008-06-01T18:45:00.000-07:00

So, after many years of wathing reruns, on TBS and of my own collection, I happily skipped arm in arm with my friends this afternoon to the Sex And The City movie. I about died from gushing with excitment, oozing from every pore. I loved the show and after pondering how I felt about the movie, I can say I honnestly love it too. I wasn't sure what I was expecting, how each character was going to grow. But I learned some lessons from this movie that I wasn't expecting. Ahem.

1. Forgiveness is a big part of life.

2. Fashion is what you make it. Learn your labels early.

3. Love might make you do some very stupid things. But then again, so does vodka!

4. Please don't wear fur to fashion week.

5. If people won't be there to celebrate on New Year's, chinese takeout always will be.

6. There's nothing like your friends so cherish them. I know I sure do. :)

xoxo
Athena

Happy June

2008-06-01T12:59:00.000-07:00

So, I can't believe May is gone already. I had so much going on, it was outta control as my friend Sandy would say. I had baby showers, graduations, going away nights, birthdays, mothers day, anniversarys. Plus I took up becoming a slave to the gym. Uh. I can truly say I'm exhausted. I was so grateful just to sleep in this morning and drink coffee in my bed and curl up with the laptop and read my blogs. I don't think I have to much in June. I'm going to full-time hours at work which will help me build up my savings funds some more. I've been doing good with my goals, I've lost some weight and built up some funds. But nows time to take it up into high gear. :) Well, I hope everybody is getting ready for summer. Although I hate the extreme heat, theres just something about summertime. :)

XOXO
Athena

L is for the way you look at me........

2008-05-25T21:38:00.000-07:00

So, my Sunday ritual is to hang out with my friend Teri, go to various craft shops in the city and then finally settling down at her kitchen table, scrapbooking and gossiping. Well, one thing I've been dying to find and decortae is a word album from BoBunny. I haven't been able to find the one I was looking for anywhere and was becoming discouraged. But, thanks to the powers that be ( and me probably asking everytime I go in there if they have it yet) Scrappin Time finally had them in. Now I have my own Love album to decorate! Ta Dah! Now, if only I could figure out exactly how I want to decorate it......

Graduation Day!

2008-05-25T21:22:00.001-07:00

So my friends Maddie and Gabriel finally graduated high school. I feel so old now for some reason, especially when I read on the pamphlet that my favorite teachers were still there and still teaching.*sniffle* But I'm glad Nick and I went to their graduation ceremony. I'm very happy for tbe bright future they have ahead of them.

in the mouth the thumb will go

2008-05-25T20:58:00.001-07:00

So, due to Grampa Roger, my sister has finally figured out how to put the thumb in the mouth. *sigh* But she sure is cute doing it! :)

Oprah Goes Vegan!

2008-05-23T00:54:00.000-07:00

In honor of World Wide Vegetarian Week, I was very shocked and pleased when I learned Oprah was going Vegan for 21 days, as part of a fast of a new novel she's reading. I was so stoked! See, when I was younger, I started watching Oprah. And she just kinda became my idol. I love watching her show in the mornings and I love how she has the opportunity to influence millions. So, if she shares her struggles and successes with her fans, I'm sure it will be a trend to catch on. I love Oprah! I hope she keeps it up!

Vegetarian Week!

2008-05-18T22:37:00.000-07:00

So I have been vegetarian again for awhile this time and its sticking pretty nicely. I have to say, it just gets easier and its been one of the best choices I've ever made for myself and my lifestyle. In honor of National Vegetarian Week, I am putting this PETA video on my blog. I watched it at work and it was just heart breaking for me to watch because I care so deeply about animals. ( Hello, I resuced a rat!) So although I won't be throwing booklets at you while you enter KFC, I just ask you be informed. Thats all. In this following video, their are 30 reasons to go veg. And now is easier than ever, with all the vegetarian options. I hope you pledge veg this year and make it stick!

Watch more videos at PETA.org

sarah's pre baby shower

2008-05-18T22:23:00.000-07:00

So Bridgette threw Sarah a pre baby shower. Her real one is in August but Bridgette is moving so she decided to throw one last get together for us girls. She and Amanda did a great job putting it together, all I was in charge of was goody bags. We ate, opened presents and decorate t-shirts and photo frames. And we gossiped until the wee hours of the morning. Somethings will never change. :)

Athena, Amanda, Sarah, Raschelle, Bridgette

growing like a weed

2008-05-18T00:58:00.000-07:00

So on a recent trip home, I of course saw my sister. And she is growing like a weed! She's only 3 mths old and she giggles. And now will yack your ear off. And she likes to watch television. She's going to be in for a world of hurt when I tell her CSI Las Vegas collects all their evidence wrong. I know Nick sure was. :)

Dear Mom

2008-05-11T22:56:00.000-07:00

Dear Mom,

This is a really hard letter to write but I'm doing it anyways. This day only comes once a year and although I cried last weekend about it, I think I'm doing really good so far today. I miss you Mom, more than I think you realized. It doesn't go away, but at least now I can talk more freely about you and even want to scrapbook our photos! Only now am I wanting to celebrate holidays. Holidays just weren't the same for a long time but now it's better. And I even wanted to celebrate this one!

I'm doing really good. I'm finally getting motivated to get on the right track. Not that my track is bad, but I'm getting some choices done and out of the way. Nick and I are doing great, not that I want to run down the aisle anytime soon, but I think we are just enjoying ourselves. And that's good, because everybody goes at a different pace. But I'm trying to live my life, like you always told me to do.

And living life I am. I have wonderful friends, family and things going on right now in my life and I couldn't be happier. Well, I could if you were here, but you know what I mean. I hope I'm making you proud Mom and thank you for still being there throughout all these years. You may not physically be here, but I know you listen to me. And I know you still love me. Mom, thats the best of all. Because I love you too. :)

Love Beanbie

Bush McCain Challange

2008-05-10T12:54:00.001-07:00

So I stole this from Jamie's blog. I love how correct and funny she is. Please take it and see if you can tell the difference between McCain and Bush. I couldn't, their both dips. :)

http://www.bush-mccainchallenge.com/index.html?id=

Wasting My Time

2008-05-08T12:20:00.001-07:00

So, this past week alot has really hit me. I'm going to be 23 pretty soon and I'm no where in my life I was really hoping to be by the time I was 23. Now, I never imagined I'd meet a wonderful guy and move to Las Vegas. I never imagined I'd meet more great friends who I love dearly and would let me sleep on the couch if I ever needed it. I never imagined I'd finally be a big sister from my dad. I never imagined some of the wonderful things that have happened to me in my life as of lately. But I also realized that some things I've really wanted to do I haven't done them yet. I haven't finished my degree ( gasp) I haven't lost all the weight I've wanted to use ( gasp) and I'm not as financially independent as I was hoping to be ( gasp) Don't take me wrong, I've done some great strides in my life. I just feel like I'm at a standstill for some reason. It really sucks, but I'm just lacking the motivation. Until yesterday. I sat around and thought, what motivates me? TIme. I'm always afraid of wasting time and I always ask the time. I think, I did all this but I shoild have done this. I'm a procrasinator, a time waster! So, now for motivation, I'm going to be giving myself some time lines. I hope this works better for me. First timeline, to have lost 30 more pounds by my birthday. My birthday is in August and I have alot of important things going on then. Baby showers, my birthday, high school reuniun with friend, summer trip to michigan, fall classes. My month is gonna be booked. I also would like to give myself until August to signifaicantly save up some stellar funds. This means I need to be more picky about what I spend money on and work harder with my Avon business. I know I can do it! I'm super excited, I am gonna be achieivng these goals in no time!

Liza Minelli

2008-05-04T22:20:00.000-07:00

So about three months ago, I ventured into Petco to buy some crickets for our lizards when I saw a huge free sign on a table by the front entrance. Next to the free sign was a 10 gallon tank with a rat in it. She was cute and furry and feisty. I asked the manager why was she free and she said it was confirmed earlier that morning by the vet that the rat was blind in one eye. But she was only free if she were going to a good home. I brought her back to my club with me in a heart beat.

So this weekend I realized that it was going to be a three day weekend at my work and I brought her home with me on Thursday. And I think Nick fell in love with her because he's begging me to keep her home with us. I'm not sure if she will be staying but she sure is loveable enough. Here are some photos. ( They are kinda blurry but she was acting like she needed Prozac)

Girls Night Out!

2008-05-04T22:14:00.000-07:00

So I am very sad to report that Bridgette is moving across the country to be with her lovebug. *sniffle* She is a busy bee getting ready, so this past Saturday night we squeezed in a Girls Night Out in Viva Las Vegas. She had never really been to the clubs before so I took her to Pure & Rain. I'm gonna miss this girl but I know she is going to have the the time of her life in Florida. Love You Bridge! <3

sTORI TELLING

2008-05-02T16:30:00.000-07:00

Dear Tori Spelling,

Must I say, your book rocked my socks off! I was never a big fan, all the t.v movies I've seen with you in them could never hold my attention long enough and I'm just a tad bit young to remember the 90210 craze. But when I settled down to read your autobiography, I just couldn't get enough of you. :) Your book made me laugh so hard I woke Nick up when he was sleeping. It made me sneak peeks of it at stop lights. When I should have been reffing a game of pool between 11 yr olds, I was reading about your crazy roommate Pete. I loved your show on Oxygen because I tend to see so many simularities between us and now it's official. I'm a huge fan! I want to meet for lunch one day and talk about your jewelery making, your ways out of debt and your infamous daisy dress. And most of all, I just want to laugh with you.

XOXO

Athena

Big Love

2008-05-01T12:05:00.000-07:00

This is seriously one of my favorite shows to watch. I became hooked from the word premiere. My stepmom and I watch them religiously and when I didn't have HBO I begged her to keep them on the DVR so I could catch up on them when I went home for the weekend. But speaking of Big Love, I recently noticed their On Demand now. I've been watching them and now Nick is even hooked! But, the main point for this blog is I'm so excited to say that season 3 is starting next month! :O Can you believe it? So many questions, another season to try to find the answers!

Can we say Big Love viewing parties at my house?

Back To The Drawing Board

2008-04-27T23:55:00.000-07:00

So, as I finish up my loads of laundry for the week, ( I despise laundry) I have decided to work my little tail feather off. As you know, we only have about a good month left before all you wanna do is lounge by the pool and drink pina coladas. So, I had decided with my friend Chuckie to get healthy! We're both going to give up drinking and eating healthier and working out. This is gonna be a struggle but I'm sure with motivation I'll find my way. So tomorrow, it's off to the gym where I can walk fast with my ITouch strapped to my arm. I can do it!

It's Been A Hard Day's Night

2008-04-27T14:43:00.000-07:00

So as you all know I sell Avon. And through the wonders of the famous 60% annual sale, I found these awesome Beatle Salt N Pepper Shakers. I couldn't believe it! As you all know, I'm absoultly in love with them. So this was such an unbelievable find!

King Putt

2008-04-27T14:22:00.000-07:00

So, Nick and I went on a date this past Thursday night. Nick really wanted to go putt putting and I found out about this place from a coworker. It was a indoor blacklight course and of course, Mr. All State whooped me. But, I didn't mind too much at the end when I got a hole in one and he didn't! Wonders never cease to amaze......

Thunder

2008-04-20T21:59:00.001-07:00

This is Thunder. He's my Grandpa Roger's dog. He's older, about 9, but you would never know it the way he will bring you numerous toys and demands to shake. Nick doesn't know it yet, but I'm bringing him home. :) * Aren't my chip n' dale pajamas the coolest???*

Samantha Grace

2008-04-20T19:38:00.000-07:00

This weekend I went to Bullhead City to visit my family and friends. And I got to know my favorite new person a little better, my sister Samantha Grace. She's way too cute for words and I can't wait to take her shopping, so she can be just like her big sis. :)

I Heart Peta!

2008-04-10T23:36:00.000-07:00

So yesterday Nick checked our mail ( we only get around to it about once a week) and I had a fancy offical looking envelope waiting for me. Oooo. So I tore into it and come to find out, it was a letter from PETA ( People for the Ethical Treatment Of Animals). It was a letter about animal abuse, a survey and a present for me. My present was address labels, with my name and a fancy looking PETA emblem on them. Now, I know their just address labels, but, they made my heart go warm and fuzzy. I've been involved with PETA for about a year now and it makes me cringe when I hear what some animals go through. And no, PETA isin't just for a bunch of tree hugging vegetarians. PETA also uncovers the dangers of PETCO and what some fashion designers let their companys do, ahem Sean " Puffy " Combs. Now, I'm not saying that I'm gonna go protest in front of KFC ( although if you read what they do you'd be disgusted) but I am all for animals rights. I suggest you go to www.peta.com before you mock me and try to argue with all this information. Anyways, I just wanted to share my cool labels with everybody! I took s pic thats kinda blurry, I didn't want a bunch of weridos knowing my addy! :)

cocoa la me

2008-04-10T23:15:00.001-07:00

Mmmmm cocoa. I know that it's starting to get warmer lately, but when we went grocery shopping, Nick insisted on buying some hot cocoa. He didn't know that I already had some from a Christmas party with the kids. Anyways, I got creative and made it extra yummy. I put Redi Whip and Hershey Syrup to spice it up. I know, I'm a nerd, but I took a pretty picture of it for a scrapbook project. Isin't it pretty???

butterfly garden

2008-04-10T21:13:00.001-07:00

Nick took me on a date this past week to the Las Vegas Strip. We walked around a couple casinos but I really liked the garden at the Bellagio. This was a picture into the Butterfly Garden. Nick said that all gardens in Michigan look like this in the summer. We're planning a August trip back there so I can't wait!

Umbrella

2008-04-09T00:36:00.000-07:00

You had my heart
and we'll never be world apart
Maybe in magazines
but you'll still be my star
Baby cause in the Dark
You can see shiny Cars
And that's when you need me there
With you I'll always share
Because
When the sun shines
We’ll shine together
Told you I'll be here forever
Said I'll always be your friend
Took an oath
I'mma stick it out 'till the end
Now that it's raining more than ever
Know that we still have each other
You can stand under my Umbrella
You can stand under my Umbrella
(Ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh eh eh eh)
These fancy things,
will never come in between
You're part of my entity
Here for Infinity
When the war has took it's part
When the world has dealt it's cards
If the hand is hard
Together we'll mend your heart
Because ...
When the sun shines
We'll shine together
Told you I'll be here forever
Said I'll always be your friend
Took an oath
I'mma stick it out 'till the end
Now that it's raining more than ever
Know that we still have each other
You can stand under my Umbrella
You can stand under my Umbrella
(Ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh eh eh eh)
You can run into my Arms
It's okay don't be alarmed
(Come into Me)
(There's no distance in between our love)
So Gonna let the rain pour
I'll be all you need and more
Because ...
When the sun shines
We'll shine Together
Told you I'll be here forever
Said I'll always be your friend
Took an oath
I'mma stick it out 'till the end
Now that it's raining more than ever
Know that we still have each other
You can stand under my Umbrella
You can stand under my Umbrella
(Ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh)
Under my umbrella
(ella ella eh eh eh eh eh eh)
It's raining (raining)
Ooo baby it's raining
baby come into me
Come into me
It's raining (raining)
Ooo baby it's raining
You can always come into me
Come into me......

viva las vegas

2008-04-07T21:43:00.000-07:00

So last week my friend Bridgette and I went to go see a free show on the strip thanks to http://www.showticets4locals.com/. We saw Trent Carlini, the winner of The Next Big Thing, or at least I think it was some show like that. Anyways, he is a Elvis impersonator and I think was pretty good, right down to his Elvis scraves and shiny rhinestones. Of course he performs Viva Las Vegas, which I happen to like the Wayne Newton version the best. But there was a cool slideshow that went with the song, with pictures of the Rat Pack ( I love the Rat Pack) and pictures of the real elvis and pictures of what Las Vegas has become over the years. But I kinda got choked up. I can honnestly say that I love Las Vegas. I mean, we sort of have a love-hate relationship. I hate tourist, but I love doing touristy thins. I hate traffice, but I love that there is so many choices of places to go. I love it that not everybody knows your name and the city always gives your opportunities to rediscover and reinvent yourself. So, here to you Las Vegas. I love you. I know I may not always live here for the rest of my days, but baby, I'm here now. And I love you to pieces!

XOXO

Athena Valentine

sandys barbuque

2008-02-18T22:57:00.000-08:00

Sandy had a barbuque this weekend. We had a blast. How can you not with good food, friends and coconut rum???